This is not isolated to a Judge Terry, this is a phenomenon plaguing the whole family legal system in the western world. The family courts and law still have the responsibility to maintain accountability, integrity, honor and fairness for the better of society.
At present the family courts represent quite a rogue entity, who demonstrate a fear to challenge lies, prejudice and exploitation of human health conditions, specifically mental health. Certainly more stringent standards of representation and procedural processes must be taught, commended and enforced within the industry.
Police officers, social workers, family therapists, family report writers, doctors, lawyers, judicial officers are reluctant to put their credibility on the line, stick their neck out as professionals and challenge "the downstream flow of what is accepted as normal by society".
Quite astonishing considering all the social expectations and behavior of genders has changed quite simply into a 'world nobody can recognize nor comprehend'. The fear of getting sued has clouded many a professionals judgement on their very own behavior and responsibilities.
The safest approach of accepting precedent case law simply doesn't hold up any longer, when professionals can exploit weaknesses and ambiguity in past judgement(s).
If this is quite the transitional period with no foreseeable solution at hand the safest play for men and some minority women, is don't play the game.